…when you feel like you’re losing the one thing that seems good and consistent in a time where everything is changing… for who knows… better or worse. That’s when you stop and realize… everything seems like crap. It didn’t, but now it does. They don’t need you. Heck, with one decision they’d be on with their life without you and it would be whatever. But they don’t realize how much you’re not like that. And you’ve let yourself need them, and that’s a big deal, bc you don’t do that.